If He's So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad?

The beginning of a relationship with an abuser is often wonderful. Of course it is, otherwise you would get out immediately. Forceful, threatening, and degrading behavior is often disguised and delivered in a humorous way, a seemingly reasonable tone, or in concerned "loving" words. Most often the recipient remains largely unaware of the bigger dynamic, completely confused as to why they feel so poorly. Over time, the abuser gains more power and control in the relationship, meanwhile the victim becomes a shell of their former selves, often developing some form of depression and anxiety, sometimes turning to unhealthy outlets to soothe the pain.

Don't be fooled by the term "subtle" and think that it implies something that is not that bad. It's the less overt, subtle tactics that cause us to question ourselves, our reality, and our worth, keeping us more dependent on our abuser and making it less likely we will leave. It's psychological bullying day in and day out from a person who knows you intimately.

Too many people remain unaware and vulnerable to mistreatment in a relationship, and it’s critical to start getting answers to these important questions; What are the not so obvious early warning signs of an unhealthy relationship? What is acceptable treatment, and what isn’t? Where do you draw that line? How do you recover and/or develop your confidence in your relationships? What does a healthy relationship even look like? If you’re looking for greater respect, satisfaction, and happiness in your relationships, both now or going forward, it’s imperative to educate yourself so that you can set your relationship standards bar higher.

With this highly insightful course, the components of subtly aggressive and controlling relationships will be broken down clearly for you. When the more obvious markers of abuse are not being met, people are often left to question themselves and their sanity. This will give you the opportunity to explore subtle psychological abuse, so that you can empower yourself with knowledge that may have previously felt intangible.

You’ll learn how to identify the unhealthy patterns of an abuser, including common tactics and methods of subtle aggression and control. You’ll also discover the common personality characteristics that make you more vulnerable to mistreatment, which will provide you with valuable insight into your past relationships and help you develop greater awareness for future relationships. As part of that awareness, you’ll begin to understand what is healthy and what isn’t in a relationship, so that you can know where to draw that line and set healthy boundaries for yourself.

Whether you’re currently in a relationship or seeking one, this course includes:

• Debunk the relationship myths.
• Identify early warning signs of an abusive relationship.
• Learn common patterns of an abuser and an unhealthy relationship.
• Understand what personality characteristics may leave you more vulnerable to mistreatment.
• Learn what’s real work and what’s an unhealthy and subtly abusive relationship.
• Heal from past trauma from childhood and/or previous relationships.
• Build better self-awareness, and define your wants and needs around love and partnership.
• Gain the courage and tools to journey toward a loving, healthy partnership.

You’ll also be exploring how to let go of an unhealthy relationship and grieving what you thought you had in your relationship but didn’t. Delving into past trauma and learning how to nurture yourself so that you can fully heal is an extremely important part of this process. With this course, you’ll create your own personal blueprint for moving forward, emotionally unencumbered, with the critical ability to sustain your personal growth and development. Let’s get you started on this journey today!